Welcome. Relationship sessions run 60 minutes long. The first session will be with both or all of you. This session is focused on assessment and being sure everyone is heard. We will work to build our therapeutic relationship. We will co-create goals and set intentions. It is an opportunity to get to know me and ask any questions about the journey. In following sessions, we will gently and constructively challenge unhelpful patterns that are not serving the relationship.

In the helping process, I draw from a variety of evidence-based and empirically supported theoretical orientations while recognizing the need to attend to cultural and other forms of human diversity. I am guided by an integration of Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, and Narrative Therapy. My belief is that psychotherapy is a journey we travel together.

We will consider your experience in family context as well as the broader social, spiritual, and political framework. Possibilities along our journey will be inspired by you. We may question the effect of gender roles and stereotyping as well as investigating our cultural understanding. We may use creative arts to bridge the relationship between language and action. We may spend time unblocking emotional expression and opening up to your inner experience.

 

We may look at the intersection of identities and the social construction of our experience. Culture, privilege, racism, heterosexism, oppression, classism, ageism, ableism, etc. are important contextual elements that play a role in our lives and are considered when determining goals and strengths.

 

I advocate, honor, and am inclusive of all gender and sexual diversities communities as well as non-dyadic intimate relationship. 

In relational therapy, your responsibility is to allow yourself to be curious and interested in your own internal thoughts, feelings, fears, and dreams with a willingness to share those with your partner(s) and to listen to your partners shared (softer) feelings as well. Outside of sessions, your responsibility is to see if you can work together to notice and call out when the unhelpful cycle shows up and to stay curious in those moments about your own thoughts, feelings, and fears and then bring to explore in therapy.

Relationship sessions are 17.500 kr. per session. 

 

Therapy can be a challenging, cathartic, difficult, amazing, eye-opening, and beautiful process. I will be there to guide and support you in our sessions together and will help to bring about positive change.

- Todd

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Image by Justin Follis

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Wedding Party

Wedding Party

Civil Partnership

Civil Partnership

Distanced Couple

Distanced Couple

Almost a Kiss

Almost a Kiss

Couple Hugging

Couple Hugging

Expectant Couple

Expectant Couple

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Image by Helena Lopes

Senior couple hugging

Senior couple hugging

Couple-walking-on-urban-sidewalk

Couple-walking-on-urban-sidewalk

Happy Couple

Happy Couple

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Image by Suhyeon Choi

old couple

old couple

About to Kiss

About to Kiss

Young Couple

Young Couple

Serious Couple Portrait

Serious Couple Portrait

couple talking

couple talking

What To Expect

Relationship Therapy